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Signs Your Aging Parent May Be Suffering Neglect in a Nursing Home

Signs Your Aging Parent May Be Suffering Neglect in a Nursing Home

When you move your loved one into a nursing home, you’re entrusting the facility to care for your loved one properly. But when one partner feels neglected or ignored, trust can be eroded at times. When it comes to dating and relationships, there is a lot of communication, a lot of attention, and a lot of little things that show care that make both of them feel cared for and don’t build up a distance.

Nursing home neglect is considered a type of nursing home abuse, and it is often overlooked. It does not always mean that there is actual harm, but it could still lead to emotional and physical distress. Here are 4 indications that your senior parent might be being neglected in a nursing home. 

Unusual Injuries or Multiple Falls

The older one gets, the lower their mobility becomes and the greater the risk for falls. But if their injuries, such as fractures, sprains, and bruises, are unexplained, this is a red flag. There are some expectations for nursing homes to evaluate the risk of falls for their residents and take steps to prevent falls, such as having mobility supports, a fall alarm, and/or floor mats.

Injury on the upper armpits or wrist joints of your aging loved one may not be from a fall. If your parent’s upper arms or wrists are bruised, but they haven’t fallen, it may be a sign that they were pulled. If your parent’s upper arms or wrists are bruised, but they have not fallen, it could be a sign that they were pulled. Frequent falls can also be a sign of inadequate supervision or inadequate staffing, and that elderly people have to move around or go to the bathroom without help.

Many people often ask, “Can you sue for nursing home neglect?” Residential care facilities are required by law to have procedures established to prevent harm to seniors. If there are repeated and unexpected injuries or falls, there may be a basis upon which to file a nursing home neglect lawsuit. It is preferable to visit a nursing home abuse attorney who will be able to guide you through the process, such as what sorts of evidence to record.

Pressure Injuries

Bed sores (also known as pressure injuries) are probably the biggest indicators of continued nursing home neglect. They typically begin as red, irritated patches over bony areas, like the tailbone, lower back, heels, and hips.  These sores occur when the blood cannot get to these areas as a result of pressure on them for a long time. These painful skin lesions can turn into serious wounds if the nursing home staff does not move, rotate,e or check your loved one’s skin.

If the resident is unable to get around on their own, he or she will be moved frequently, typically every two hours, depending on the resident’s care plan, at a competent home. Another indicator of emotional neglect in a relationship is a failure to show attention and constant work. As time goes on, unmet needs may intensify and cause significant loss of trust and relationships,p such as sepsis and bone infections (also known as osteomyelitis).

Unsanitary Living Conditions and Poor Hygiene

Neglect in a nursing home without researchers does not necessarily cause immediate physical harm. It can be a progressive decrease in care over the day. If not, during unannounced visits, ensure that your loved one is wearing clean clothes, has clean hair and nails, and is sleeping in clean bedding. The presence of urine odors, soiled sheets, and dirty rooms can be a sign of poor hygiene and care.

If a nursing home is unable to provide basic hygiene for the residents, then it may be compromising other important areas. So, if you have poor hygiene and live in unhygienic conditions for a long time, you are bound to get recurrent urinary tract infections (UTIs) or develop skin breakdowns. This can have a crucial impact on your elderly parent’s self-esteem and wellness. 

Malnutrition, Dehydration, and Significant Weight Loss

If your loved one has just experienced weight loss and is thirsty (has cracked lips, confusion or sunken eyes), he/she is probably not receiving proper feeding or any feeding.  Your parent will likely require encouragement to eat – verbal or physical – and will most likely require this encouragement as his or her physical state decreases with age. Otherwise, they may just refuse to eat. 

Find an empty water pitcher and ensure that it’s readily available, and pay attention to any unusual sluggishness. If your loved one may be more susceptible to catching colds and may have a compromised immune system to handle them if he or she is weak. However, if the weight loss is not because of the apparent reasons, it shows that there is something wrong either in nutrition or in not being monitored by anyone and should be discussed with a doctor.

Recognizing and Addressing Early Signs of Emotional Neglect

If you feel that it’s not going well, before it goes south, discuss it with the partner. Most of the time, it is enough to discuss with them and have good communication to prevent misunderstandings, and then to make them feel further away while reducing their trust towards one another.

Make any notes about injuries, uncleanliness in the premises, communication with patient(s), and complaints against the nursing residence management and government authorities.  Long-Term Care Ombudsman. If neglect causes serious harm or the facility fails to address your concerns, consult a nursing home abuse attorney to explore your legal options.