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This post is about the sexy pickup lines you can use to get the conversation going.
As a dating expert, I've mastered how to use pickup lines properly. Some of my works have been featured on Bolde and Elite Daily. So, I'm here to help you break the ice while truly catching her attention.
Let's dive in.
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31 Best Sexy Pick Up Lines
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1. I wish my pillow were as huggable as you.
Why It's Great: This is another way to tell them that you love cuddling with them. Who doesn't like to go to bed and fall asleep in your loved one's arms? Excite them to go home and cuddle with you in bed with this pickup line. You can use it even after you've hugged them once, too - but don't use it too much, or it will lose impact.
When to Use: Is their shift at work almost over? That's the best time to say this. Excite them to go home so you can hug each other.
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2. I think you've got something in your eye. Oh, never mind, it's just a sparkle.
Why It's Great: This is a sweet compliment to flatter your special someone. It sounds so casual and yet sincere. Sometimes, when you try too hard to say a pickup line, it just sounds forced.
When to Use: You can start with this one if you and your crush aren't that close yet. It doesn't sound insinuating, so you can use it when your eyes meet.
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3. I think there's something wrong with my phone. Could you try calling it to see if it works?
Why It's Great: It's great because you'll get their real number, not just some made-up digits. Also, you can make an impression by being creative in getting their number.
When to Use: Did you just spot on the person you like? Now is the time to use this pickup line to get their number.
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4. I think the only way you could possibly be more beautiful is if I got to know you.
Why It's Great: It shows that you're not just after their beauty but also get to know them deeply. Being physically beautiful is one thing. But having a great personality makes the person likable. This line is very forward but also very genuine. This is a great conversation starter that gets you two started on talking and getting to know each other.
When to Use: Use this after you've introduced yourselves to each other. The only way to develop a friendship or relationship is by getting to know each other.
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5. You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line.
Why It's Great: It's a compliment that makes them feel good and appreciated. And it's also a great excuse if you really forgot your pickup line. This works because it's complimentary but also cheeky. Plus, it's easy to remember.
When to Use: The best time to use this is when you forget your pickup line! You can consider it a lifesaver because it'll serve its purpose if you deliver it well.
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6. So, aside from taking my breath away, what do you do for a living?
Why It's Great: This is a compliment and conversation starter in one line. You compliment them for being breathtaking and, at the same time, ask questions to get to know them better.
When to Use: Use this when you're sitting down in a coffee shop and just talking casually. A peaceful environment is preferred so that you can understand each other well.
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7. I was just trying to buy a drink here, but you're very distracting.
Why It's Great: Saying that their looks are too distracting not to notice will tickle anyone's heart. For sure, they put effort into looking good for this night out, so don't forget to compliment them.
When to Use: Use this as a conversation starter when your crush is at the bar. Instead of saying 'hi,' say this pickup line to stand out among others trying to get their attention.
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8. Feel my shirt. Know what it's made of? Boyfriend material.
Why It's Great: Even though they're not touching your skin, they're touching the material closest to it. Makes sure that you smell good if you're going to get this close to someone. That's just one way to impress them! This might be one of those dirty pickup lines, but someone out there will appreciate it.
When to Use: Use it if you're talking to someone and want to get close to them physically. If you're planning to make a move and kiss them, this is a good way to start.
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9. Did the sun come out, or did you just smile at me?
Why It's Great: Tell them that their presence brightens your day. They're a ray of sunshine that gives you a positive and cheery vibe. A great pickup line for when you're talking to someone outdoors. This line is as smooth as James Bond, so be prepared to follow up with a chat-up line too.
When to Use: Say this when you're outdoors together and taking a quick break. Sometimes, it becomes more memorable when you say the pickup line at the time they least expect.
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10. I was going to call you beautiful, but then I realized I don't have your number yet.
Why It's Great: It can be nerve-racking to ask someone's number, especially if you have a crush on them! This line adds smoothness and sweetness to the usual line of 'Can I have your number?' Surely, this can give you better results.
When to Use: Use this line when you want to get someone's number. But make sure they're not in a hurry to properly catch your pickup line.
11. You know, I'm actually terrible at flirting. How about you try to pick me up instead?
Why It's Great: This gives makes you memorable for that person. You're so brutally honest that you don't know how to flirt properly; they'll appreciate that. That can also make them laugh- in a good way, so it's a great way to start a conversation.
When to Use: Say this line to turn the tide when flirting with someone you like. They may find it irritating to be constantly bugged with your flirting moves, so what not make her do it instead? I'm sure you won't be annoyed, will you?
12. Your hand looks heavy—can I hold it for you?
Why It's Great: If that person says yes, then lucky you! You can get physically closer, which means your intimacy level has leveled up. Although this sentence may sound silly, it would be hard for someone to refuse. It's good that you're there to help them and hold her hand!
When to Use: Say this line when you're walking together in a park or mall. This could be your chance to walk while holding hands.
13. When I text you goodnight later, what phone number should I use?
Why It's Great: If they give their phone number to you, that means they enjoyed your little conversation. It'll also be hard to decline your request since you're telling them you want to wish them good night.
When to Use: You already had a small talk, so don't let that go to waste. Get their number with the help of this pickup line. It'll be hard for them to say no.
14. What time do you have to be back in heaven?
Why It's Great: This means that she's an angel that came down from heaven. When someone compares you to an Angel, it means that you don't have any flaws, and that's a good compliment. Most lines that mention heaven are cheesy, but this one will make her smile.
When to Use: Ask this when both of you need to part ways and go home. Send your special someone home with a compliment that will flatter them. Rest assured, you'll be the one they think about when they go to bed.
15. If I got a star for every time I thought of you, I would have a whole galaxy.
Why It's Great: They'll surely appreciate the fact that you always think about them. It shows that you value them because they're special to you. This is a sweet line that will make her feel special. A cheesy pickup line like this shows her just how much you appreciate her - and is sure to get her to blush.
When to Use: This is best to use before you say good night! Before they close their eyes, let them know somebody out there thinks about them.
16. If you're here, who's running heaven?
Why It's Great: Remind them that they are in your life- a blessing. It may sound corny, but they'll feel your sincerity if you say it with eye contact.
When to Use: When it just happened that your crush is at the same coffee shop, you went to(we know it wasn't a coincidence). It's a good opening to greet someone you like.
17. Would you grab my arm, so I can tell my friends I've been touched by an angel?
Why It's Great: This might be a cheesy pickup line, but it can make someone smile. You might not get their love, but at least you got some laughs! If you say this enthusiastically, it will be clear that you are trying to be cheesy on purpose. There's nothing wrong with doing so!
When to Use: Break that awkward silence with some giggles! I used this line once during the first time I talked to my crush. Her response was, 'You're so funny!' I know that's how she remembered me. At least I was able to make an impression.
18. Are you a loan? Because you sure have my interest!
Why It's Great: This is witty and hilarious at the same time. This is the good kind of interest a person will want to get! Show them that you're interested in getting to know them better, and ask if they wish to have coffee with you.
When to Use: Use this when you see the apple of your eye at the bank. Just make sure they're already done with their business so that you won't get in their way.
19. Are you an angle? Because you're so acute.
Why It's Great: Acute angle is any angle less than 90 degrees. That means it's quite on the smaller and cuter side, just like your crush. Even though they're cute, rest assured, you're love is never short. A perfect pickup line for someone who likes maths. Math puns are always a great way to enhance a conversation.
When to Use: If you're together in your Math class, say this to your crush to get their attention!
20. Are you made of copper? Cause I Cu in a relationship with me.
Why It's Great: Want to give them a hint that you want to take your friendship to another level? This is the smooth way to say it. She won't need a lot of scientific knowledge to get this one, so feel free to use it on a variety of folk.
When to Use: Say this to someone from your Science class, and show them what you've learned. You can also text this pickup line so they can clearly see the essence of the line.
21. Hi, my friend thinks you're kinda cute, but I don't. I think you're gorgeous.
Why It's Great: She might be confused for a moment before she realizes what you said. Lead her in with the lead-up, then deliver an epic punchline to exceed her expectations. This line will make them feel good about themselves and surely give them confidence. Thanks to you because you made them feel special.
When to Use: Say this line to start a conversation when you've got your wingman by your side to make it more believable.
22. I'm no mathematician, but I've been told I'm good with numbers. How about you give me yours so I can prove it?
Why It's Great: Give them something to smile about so they'll be more likely to give you the information you need. A good piece to start flirting with someone and start a conversation.
When to Use: This is another smooth way to get someone's number without being too forward.
23. Are you an alien? Because you just abducted my heart.
Why It's Great: Tell them they've captured your heart! And you have no problems with them being from another planet or galaxy. It means that you've fallen for them, and it doesn't matter what their past is. This line is strange but perfect for alien lovers.
When to Use: Say this when you just finished watching an alien movie. I'm sure they'd still remember the scenes from the movie. But the difference is yours will have a happy ending.
24. Do you like raisins? How do you feel about a date?
Why It's Great: It's great because your message is being conveyed clearly. But clarify that it wasn't just a joke; it's a real question. There's a high chance she'll say yes. Be prepared with your best lines after she responds!
When to Use: A great way to ask someone out on a date! Take this opportunity to impress them that you're not just romantic but also have a sense of humor.
25. Hey, my name's Microsoft. Can I crash at your place tonight?
Why It's Great: This is a cool and nerdy pickup line and most people can relate with it. I'm sure once in their lives, they've experienced how it is when one's operating system crashes. That's a good segue to ask if you can stay at their place.
When to Use: Use this when you want to spend the night with someone. Who knows, they might say yes if you impressed them enough.
26. You're like my false teeth; I can't smile without you.
Why It's Great: This will make your special someone laugh. However, you should clarify whether you really have false teeth. Anyhow, you've made it clear that they're the source of your happiness.
When to Use: This is best to say over a lunch or dinner date. It's a good icebreaker and gives a chill or casual atmosphere.
27. Your smile lit up the room, so I had to come over.
Why It's Great: This makes someone feel special. If you like them, you'd want them to feel good about themselves. Because if they do, the likelihood of you being together increases.
When to Use: Say this when you go to a party or an event. This is also suitable for picking up someone from the bar/club.
28. What does it feel like to be the most gorgeous girl in the room?
Why It's Great: Compliments can never go wrong. Even if they've already heard the same thing repeatedly, it still gives them a good feeling.
When to Use: This is a compliment and a good conversation starter in one pickup line. They won't have a choice but to talk to you after you tell them they're the most gorgeous in the room.
29. Wow, when God made you, he was seriously showing off.
Why It's Great: People, especially girls, like to be told they're always beautiful. But make a lasting impression by being creative with how you compliment them. This pickup line will let the girl know that you think she's gorgeous.
When to Use: This can be used anytime you have the chance to talk to the person that caught your attention. You'll never know when you'll meet 'the one,' so keep it ready.
30. I swear someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.
Why It's Great: To compliment a specific feature means that you're really paying attention to them. Back it up with good conversation topics to get to know each other and exchange numbers. Who doesn't like to be complimented by their eyes? If she has the most beautiful eyes ever, better tell her before anyone else can.
When to Use: Best to use when you're strolling under the night sky. Let's just hope that the moon and the stars are visible when you say this line because that'll be the perfect stage.
31. I never believed in love at first sight, but that was before I saw you.
Why It's Great: Tell her how important and incredible they are. They made you change your perspective about love at first sight! She'll feel flattered being told this, but it isn't flattery if it's the truth, isn't it?
When to Use: Use this when you want to let the person know that they made an impact in your life. You feel that you should be together.
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NSFW Pick Up Lines
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These NSFW pickup lines are best to use with someone you're already close to. Don't try to blurt these out to a total stranger and expect to get a date. Say these lines to someone you're in a relationship with, and make them excited to go home!
- I’m not feeling myself today. Can I feel you instead?
- Give me your car keys so I can drive you crazy.
- Is your name Earl Grey? Because you look like a hot-tea!
- I love my bed, but I’d rather be in yours.
- Are you my homework? Cause I’m not doing you but I definitely should be.
- Can you do telekinesis? Because you’ve made a part of me move without even touching it.
- Is that a candy cane in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?
- You must be yogurt because I want to spoon you.
- Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you’d be guilty as charged!
- Dinner first, or can we go straight for dessert?
Sexual Smooth Pick Up Lines
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These are the best if you're hoping to give the person you're talking to something to smile about. Smooth pick up lines can help you start a conversation on the right foot. They can also make you feel confident as they sound like a phrase that you might have made up on the spot.
- You’re so hot, my zipper is falling for you.
- They say that kissing is a language of love, so would you mind starting a conversation with me?
- I’m on top of things. Would you like to be one of them?
- Do you drink soda? Because you look so-da-licious.
- Are you a campfire? Because you’re hot and I want s’more.
- If you’re feeling down, I can feel you up.
- What is a nice person like you doing in a dirty mind like mine?
- We were both born without clothes.
- Want to save water by showering together?
- I’m an adventurer and I want to explore you.
Dirty Clever Pick Up Lines
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Clever pick up lines are super useful because they make you look intelligent right off the bat. Before someone has got to know you they'll think of you as being charming. Choose the ones that you like the most and give them a go when you next speak to a girl you like.
- Are you a raisin? Cause you’re raising my hopes for a kiss right about now.
- Can you tell me what time you’ll come back to my place, please?
- I hate to see you go, but I love to watch you leave.
- Did you know I am good with numbers? Give me yours so I can prove it to you.
- Hey. I’m Mr. Right. I heard you were looking for me.
- I was wondering if you had an extra heart. Mine was just stolen.
- Hi, my name is [your name], but you can call me tonight or tomorrow.
- I think I could fall madly in bed with you.
- Your clothes look so uncomfortable. Why don’t you let me help you take them off?
- I’d love to be the devil on your shoulder and the devil on your lips.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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I've assembled some of the best sexy pickup lines for you to use when flirting. There are plenty more out there, but hopefully, this list will give you the headstart you need to start picking up the girl you like. Do you have more questions about pickup lines and how to pick girls up? If so, I've answered frequently asked questions about the subject; review them here.
How to pick the best sexy pickup lines?
Choosing between pickup lines is important because you want to be sure you're picking the most relevant lines for your situation. By asking yourself the questions below, you'll know that you're choosing the most useful lines that will likely work best.
- Where will you be talking to the girl? Where you will be talking to the girl will make a big difference to the type of pickup lines that you use. For example, in a bar, you can be more forthright and use lines that say exactly what you mean. However, choose funny or flirty lines to keep the mood relaxed if you are somewhere more casual.
- Do you know her already? If you already know the girl, then you can use lines that are most relevant to her. You could choose a pickup line that mentions a topic she likes. Better yet, suggests something you already know about her. However, choosing a general pickup line is a good idea when talking to a stranger.
- What kind of guy are you? If you are a confident guy, then you can use pickup lines that are very forward and show this off. Cheesy or funny lines might work best for you if you are a dorky guy. Choose lines that match your personality so you can say them with conviction and come across as genuine.
What makes a girl fall for you?
More often than not, it's not the strength or smarts of a man that gets the girl... it's his charm. A man's natural charisma goes a long way in attracting and drawing other people in, especially when it comes to girls. These pickup lines are ways one can express their natural charm, and that's why they work as well as they do. So, when in doubt, being charming is the way to make a girl fall for you.
How do you tell a girl that she's special?
There are several ways you can do this. Tell them directly, subtly, or try to say it cleverly. The pickup lines in this list will help you communicate with a girl and tell her she's special in a clever and sexy way. Try them out, and see how she reacts!
What questions can make a girl blush?
When you want to make a girl blush, try asking her flirty questions that flatter her. Ask her things like "How are you so beautiful?" or "You know that you're amazing, right?" to make her feel special. She'll be blushing like mad if you praise her well!
What is the sweetest thing to say to a girl?
Like the above question, praising her for her beauty or saying she's special works wonders. But if you're looking for a more specific example, here is, in my opinion, the sweetest thing you can say: "You're the most beautiful woman in the world." If you're completely serious about it when you say this, it'll come off as incredibly sweet.
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